“What are three things that you must have or must do that will make you feel settled [in a new city]?” asked Fai, my new colleague whom I’ve become fast friends with.
I didn’t expect the question. Fai, I’ve come to learn, has this uncanny skill of asking deeper questions that doesn’t quite disarm you, but comfortably spurs you to pause and think — something we all need in this fast-paced day and age. I appreciated her getting to the root of things, and making me put on my thinking cap.
It wasn’t so much that I didn’t have an answer, it was that I never really considered having to narrow them down. I definitely have more than three, but nudged to pick, I went with…
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